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Month: August 2023

Cocktail Musings: A Once Unresolved Matter

Cocktail Musings: A Once Unresolved Matter

One of the first concepts I learned when I began studying astrology was the idea of the twelve houses. Simply put, there is a kind of snapshot taken of the sky above and beneath the earth at the moment we are born. It contains the twelve constellations of the zodiac, the moon and the sun, and the eight remaining planets other than earth. Yes, astrologers still count Pluto; in fact, he is rather important. This snapshot becomes what is known as the natal chart, and it offers a blueprint of the energetic forces that we will carry with us throughout the remainder of our lives. It is divided into twelve different sections, with each one representing a certain area of our psyche and life experiences. Knowing a client’s exact birth time is crucial to astrologers because it informs us as to which constellation was coming up over the eastern horizon at that particular moment. This section of the sky is known as the first house, or the rising sign, and it sets the house placements for the remainder of the chart. The first house is the lens through which we interact with the world, and in the other houses we find things like our childhood experiences, our deep interpersonal relationships, our career and public selves, and our friendships, just to name a few of them. As with everything else in astrology, none of these house meanings were determined randomly, and have no origin in pop culture, but rather they were based on an ancient methodology that arose from a complex blend of the observable sky and corresponding mathematical calculations, as well as the principles of Greek philosophy and mythological stories. The natal chart can offer us insight into who we are as individuals by highlighting our strengths and challenges, and by helping us to understand why we behave and react in the ways in which we do. It is meant to be a tool of self-illumination, nothing more, and certainly nothing less.

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Cocktail Musings: Dreamscape

Cocktail Musings: Dreamscape

I had the most amazing dream this past week. Now before you hit the snooze button on me, hear me out; I promise that its retelling is relevant to the subject of this post. I had been given a beautiful, handcrafted clock that was made from a very light colored, grainy wood, but it folded up the way the old Timex travel alarms did. It was about the size of a book, and when it was open, it had a round white dial with black numbers on it. It wasn’t working, so I took it to a clock shop where the owner oohed and aahed over it and told me it was truly a work of art. He pointed out a round engraving on the bottom edge that contained the initials of the clockmaker. He told me that he could most definitely repair it, and I left it with him. Upon leaving, I visited a coffee shop where I found my good friend Ellie sitting at a table with many, many papers in front of her. “I’m working on a big project'” she told me, “and I’m just going to sit here until it’s finished.” Those of you reading who know Ellie are fully aware that this is exactly something she would say. In fact, she has said those very words to me quite a number of times. In the dream, I answered in the same way that I always did in real life. “Let me sit down. I’ll help you.” We ordered coffee and a cheese plate that came out on a round wooden board. After that I woke up. In the past I would have immediately reached for my copy of 10,000 Dreams Interpreted and looked up all the symbols in the dream: three circles, time, something handcrafted of value, coffee with a friend, and an act of service. I would have tried to turn the dream into something predictive and useful for my waking life, but my perspective on dreaming has recently changed. Do you wonder why? I hope so, because I’m about to tell you.

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